“The person that you are with should be somebody that is okay with the thing that you do on normal basis.”
“It’s not only okay-- both person should be okay without the other person."
“Otherwise, it's codependency."
These points are… apparently, not clear enough for numerous people I am friends with. Last time I went to a sleepover party, they were basically bashing on their boyfriends for not caring enough for them, and they wanted special treatment because they were, well, The Girlfriends.
Nothing is wrong with wanting to be special, but… if you expect your boyfriend is always there when you need a ride and willing to wait for you pass your hangout, you can see me wincing in the corner.
I know, I’m not one to talk, but I have three siblings happily married, you know. I see them interact and sometimes I wonder how the heck they could even meet each other. They are all weird together, hahah (Apparently, my oldest bro never had the title of boyfriend. They just kept seeing each other). Cut the chase, I am not expecting this to be read… I just want to write a rant that has same point of view as mine.
(This is Jules, Jonathan, and Rich speaking)
"Honesty is attractive"
"It's not only attractive, it's essential for any relationship."
"Everybody feels that they have to be cheesy."
"No… you just have to be sincere!"
"Everybody have this idea of this projection of like "when we date someone, we have to go stargazing and we have to give each other our heart" and it's gonna be amazing, but like... you don't actually into that… I don't even know anybody who is f*cking into that."
"I'm into that."
"You're into that, but like, you're not gonna date who only wants to do that. You gonna want to date a girl who is listening to 8bit soundtrack as much as you do."
"I know these people that are dating people who they don't even know, but like, because they're stargazing together they think that it is perfect."
"I think people confused love as something they’re consuming; love very quickly becomes you giving yourself to somebody else and helping them become a better person--”
“But then they don’t accept that! Yeah!”
“I don’t agree with the whole you have to give 50-50 because if you give more than 50, it’s like “Give my 50, Girl! I’m out! I’m out!”
“B*tch keep up with my 50! And then you start arguing who unloaded the dishwasher last *laugh*”
“I think it should be like thinking about 60-60, almost. You should be willing because you care about that other person, to be able to go for extra mile because you genuinely care about them, rather than making contractual agreement.”
“The person that you’re with should be somebody that make you feel comfortable about being yourself, I mean, it sounds so much simpler than it is, but like, you need somebody who deep down genuinely is okay with the humor you okay with, the thing that you do on normal basis.”
“It’s not only okay-- both person should be okay without the other person."
"Oh yeah, absolutely, otherwise it's codependency."
In part two, they talked about breakup and dealing with the heartbreak…
They sounds so hopeless because they were very busy with career; it’s hard for them to put time and energy for relationship. I hope Jerod’s marriage announcement gave those homies hope though… He is as busy as they are.
"Jerod, Any advice on crushes?"
"I don't know much about relationship, like... I'm bad at it.
My advice is be yourself, and if she likes you for who you are, then give it a try.
If you're fourteen, wait a little while before you get into relationship
because the fact that not everything works out at that age.
If you're older around 19-20, I mean, start looking for somebody, I guess,
My advice on relationship is to not get into one, period.
because it causes a lot of drama, it really does.
I would recommend not getting into relationship
but it's completely up to you what you do with your life.
I'm not trying to tell you AUGHR no sex before marriage! or anything like that either
like... what do you do with your life is up to you."
"you're too perfect to date" I AGREE.
"but you have a Canadian import bride!"
who is a cancer researcher on the way to phD, working as gaming industry public relation, and dancing to anime song
How was that happened?
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